Saturday, September 22, 2007;
♥ 9/22/2007 06:00:00 AM
Cant believe that i could be so blind
It's like you were floating
While i was falling
And i didnt mind>>
My cousin, Miss Han, has officially became the newly Mrs Tan on 19 september. (:
I'll upload the photos here!
(PS. I have really limited photos cos most of the time im busy helping the bride with her stuff, and the camera isnt with me. SOBS.)
Whats your definition of 'true friends'?
In the past, my definition of true friends are simply people whom you find comfortable hanging around with. They must be people who will laugh at your jokes, be there whenever you wanna chill out or smth. They will sit with you during breaks, accompany you to the toilets, shop with you, brunch with you, and yeah, simply just spend the fun times with you.
But as i grow older, and i stepped into a whole new environment, with different friends and teachers and everything else. I realised my thinking was wrong, totally wrong.
Especialy after the giant step we all take, from primary school to sec school, and from sec school to now, jc/poly. The definition of true friends became clearer than ever to me now.
True friends, arent just people whom you find comfortable and fun to hang around with. When youre with them, you can truly be yourself. You can act freely, and snort the loudest, sit in the most unglam manner, slip and fall and laugh at yourself, and simply, just being yourself. You dont feel any restrictions, and yeah, comfortable and true.
What's the most impt thing is that, they dont make you feel like youre alone in this damn world. You wont feel like youre being abandon by the world, and youre left behind - alone, walking this stupid long stretch of journey of life - alone. True friends make everything/everyday fine. They seems to be the one supporting the sky, when the sky seems to be falling down on you. They're always there to pick you off the ground, everytime you find yourself hitting the rock bottom. And yeah, they make life more interesting and fulfiling and fun and interesting and better.
No, i dont want just friends whom i hang around with, to chill out and have fun.
No, i dont want to have friends, but ended up havin to bottle everything inside of me.
No, i dont want to look as though i have friends, but i cant find absolutely no one to msg/call and tell them my troubles.
No, i dont need friends, for the sake of having them.
I need friends, friends who are true with friendships everlasting. I need friends, who will make me feel that 'hey! There're actually more to life than these.'. I need friends who will always be there to pick up the phone everytime i need them. And i need friends, true friends, whose listening ears are always there.
What's your definition of 'true friends'?
And are your current true friends, really 'true friends', who will brave through the storm with you?
And you, quit bringing me on an emtional rollarcoaster ride. Please? =l
the world's a confusion
and so are you;
&maybe things will be fine after awhile.
